The #1 Mistake Men Make After a Divorce

If you were to guess what the #1 mistake men make after divorce, what do you think it would be?

In my experience, the #1 mistake is not looking at how we contributed to our divorce. I know this because this is what I did (after my first marriage). Other men I have worked with have done this as well.

Most divorced men move on to their next relationship without spending hardly any time learning how they may have contributed to their divorce. It is much easier, and tempting, to look at our ex-partner’s faults and issues, while not examining our own.

The quote “Those who do not learn from the past, are doomed to repeat it” is very true. Whenever a relationship is not working out, we need to look at our part. And we almost always have a part.

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