Articles
Over the years, Stuart has consulted for many professionals from all manner of industries. He is also a regular contributor to the Washington Association of Realtors RE Journal.
The 3 “L” Method of Communication for Couples
Communication between partners can be messy and complicated. That is why I developed the 3 “L” Method of Communication. It is easy to remember, and has hand motions to reinforce its use.…
When Grown Men Don’t Act Their Age
Unfortunately, men don’t always act their age. Here are some examples: They get defensive when given feedback they don’t like They disappear or go silent when given…
How husbands can avoid arguments with their wives (partners)
Most arguments between husbands and wives (partners) can be avoided. To do this, we need to stop and listen, take responsibility for our words and actions, and avoid getting defensive. Here is…
A Broker Wants to Retire
Dear Coach: I have been a Real Estate Broker for over 30 years. I am ready to start winding down my business and not having to deal with this crazy market. The…
Becoming an Effective People Manager
Dear Coach: I am a successful broker who has created a team consisting of myself, a marketing/transaction coordinator, and a buyer’s agent. I am having some ongoing challenges managing my two team…
One Divorce is Enough
Question: If you are going through a divorce, or have been divorced before, how do you avoid going through another one? Answer: Figure out how you contributed to your first (and hopefully last) divorce,…
Why Men Don’t Like (or Know How) to Apologize
Do you have trouble admitting a mistake and apologizing? I had that problem for many years. Here is why it was hard for me: First off, I didn’t think I made mistakes,…
The #1 Mistake Men Make After a Divorce
If you were to guess what the #1 mistake men make after divorce, what do you think it would be? In my experience, the #1 mistake is not looking at how we…
Being an “Insignificant” Other
Have you ever been referred to, or introduced by, your partner as their “significant” other? Or perhaps you have heard your friends or acquaintances speaking about their “significant” other. If a significant…
Do you Listen to Care, or Listen to Fix?
When we listen to fix, we are not really listening. Instead, we are thinking of ways to solve the other person’s problem. When we are preoccupied with thinking of solutions, we are…